Custom Wedding Ceremonies

The part of your wedding everyone came to witness
deserves to be extraordinary.

A ceremony we create together.

I often tell my couples that I don’t want their wedding ceremony to feel like something being done to them. We create it together.

I start by getting to know each of you on your own. I want to know how you met and fell in love, of course. But I’m even more interested in the little things. The family stories. The quirks. What you’ve weathered together. What you’re dreaming about for the future.

How do you feel loved by your partner?

What is the kindest thing your partner has ever done for you?

The answers are almost never about grand gestures. More often, they’re found in the small, ordinary moments that reveal how you love and care for one another. Those are the details I want to know. From there, I create a ceremony that sounds like you, honors the people and traditions that matter, and says something true about the marriage you’re choosing to create.

You don’t need to know how to build a ceremony. That’s my job. We create it together until it feels unmistakably yours. And on your wedding day, you get to simply be inside it.

Custom Wedding Ceremonies

The part of your wedding everyone came to witness
deserves to be extraordinary.

Tell Your Story- Alisa meets personally with each couple and crafts and delivers their story in an inspired ceremony.

In their words…

“Alisa created a ceremony that felt so unique and so authentically us that it felt almost too magical to be real.”

“She crafted a wedding ceremony that was so deeply personal and felt like ‘us’... her officiating was the highlight of the day and it was easily the most complimented part of our wedding.”

“We both felt so held and known by Alisa.”

“We were asked who was the goddess, Disney princess, master officiant, and how on earth did we find her?!”

“I can speak for every filmmaker when I say that when we hear Alisa Tongg is the celebrant, we do a secret happy dance. Alisa is a filmmaker’s dream, always so eloquently telling each couple’s story during the ceremony with sincerity and warmth. …”

- Natalie Wallace, Birdhouse Weddings

See the ceremonies come to life

Trudy + William

Alina + Kyle

Ed Teaser

Heather + Khris

Heartbeat: A story of an adoption family reunion

Ceremony Scenes, Alisa Tongg Celebrant, Lovesick Inc

Custom wedding ceremonies begin at $2,200

Alisa is a proud supporter of Wish Upon A Wedding, the world’s first nonprofit wish granting organization providing weddings and vow renewals for couples facing terminal illness and serious life-altering circumstances, regardless of sexual orientation.

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